In [part 1 of this WYSIWYG blog] I attempted to put you at ease and to give you the assurance that it is truly me who will take your breath away and make you speechless when you first open the door for me. I hope my [OnlyFans] account helped you not only gain confidence that it is truly me, but that it has you that much more chomping at the bit to me in person. Or perhaps you checked out my verified pictures on the websites with professional verification service.

But for this to work, I also need to make sure that you are a trustworthy person for me to meet. Preparing for a courtesan high-class date takes several hours and I assure you, doing it and then to find out it was a hoax is rather infuriating. In addition, an elite companion will not naively step into the door without first securing her own safety. We take our safety, hygiene, fitness and wellness critically serious and a discerning gentlemen will understand this. They realise that we make ourselves vulnerable to have intimate companion dates with people we haven’t previously met.

Men who don’t understand this and don’t want to assist me in assuring my safety should defer to escorts who are willing to take these shortcuts. I would advice, however, to consider what may drive such recklessness and what other shortcuts she may take that could be a damper on your dream date and possibly even your wellbeing. Instead, let’s stick together on this and get our mutual verifications in order so we can look forward to a date that makes the world around us fade away. 

With you knowing that I’m really your dream girl, how can you win my interest and trust to accept your booking?

Introduce yourself when you first reach out to me. You’d be surprised how often I get messages from men that simple say ‘Hi’, ‘How are you?’ or ‘What’s up?’. To avoid becoming a chat service, I systematically ignore these messages. A class gentlemen introduces himself and is clear about his intentions: a date, an overnight or even a fly-me-to-you (FMTY) arrangement. He will ‘sell’ himself to me. He will kindly request my availability on a specific date and will make me feel respected and highly valued. It is only with gentlemen like these that I will interact to plan for his perfect date and to make sure I’m dressed and prepared to exceed his wildest dreams. Too much back and forth email is commonly known to indicate a faker as opposed to an organised gentleman who knows what he wants.
 

When our first date approaches, we reach this point where I will need to know who you are (when meeting you at your home or with a fly-me-to-you arrangement) or to make sure that someone else knows who you are (when meeting in a hotel). I simply cannot step into the car or take a flight without having established that you are who you are. 

Screening for a hotel booking

The simplest way is for us to have our first meeting is in an upscale hotel. All I need is your last name and roomnummer so that I can call the hotel to be transferred to your room. A four- or five-star hotel will require that I give them your name for the call to be transferred to your room. As soon as they transfer me, I have the verification that I need. At your request, I can recommend a hotel for our date in Amsterdam, The Hague, Utrecht, Rotterdam or Eindhoven.

Screening for meeting you at your location or fmty

If you do prefer that our first meeting takes place at your home address or for me to take an international flight to meet you abroad (FMTY), I will need to have your LinkedIn or Facebook profile where I will look for two things: (1) a clear and recent picture of you so that I can recognise you at the door, and (2) that this is indeed an active account I can trust. Lastly, to finalise the verification process, I will need to have your telephone number which I will use to send a verification text message with you.

I get it! You might worry about your privacy and our discretion. Please be aware that I have a successful professional career, a loving family, many friends and a vast professional network to protect as well. As far as privacy and discretion are concerned, you and I are on a level-playing field with me making every effort that the limited time I make available for bookings like these stays safely under the radar.
 

This stuff is not sexy for us to discuss, so I have long decided to not debate any of this and instead trust that classy gentlemen like you will understand that our mutual safety, discretion and wellbeing is of the utmost importance. But perhaps it is sexier than meets the eye. I actually think that this curious desire coupled with lingering questions of trust builds the intrigue and puts you and I on the naughty edge which makes it so adventurous and such a thrill. It makes our appointment that much naughtier and our intimate connection so much hotter which is ultimately what we want. I know that I do! Will I see you soon?